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"Innovation is an evolutionary process, so it's not necessary to be radical all the time."
Marc Jacobs

Thursday, May 20, 2010

City girl wants to be a Southern Belle...


In my recent maid of honor duties, I stumbled across this perfect wedding website that provides you with ideas, d.i.y. projects and used wedding gowns for purchase!!
Now, my cousin's style doesn't go along with this site really but it hits my style right on the head!!

I have always known that when its my turn my wedding will be eclectic with wonderful vintage finds of little bobbles and trinkets through out.  I use to think that it just was my feminine love of lace and things that don't match.  The more I dig into this website I realize.... I want a classic southern farm wedding!  I would have never thought myself to be a southern farm girl since I am a city girl through and through!  I think my 4 year stay in Savannah,GA rubbed off on me a little more than I thought!

  I, as most girls have thought about their wedding day long before meeting their prince.  Now that I have meet him, I think about it more often then I should!  Him and I have a running joke that I will have our wedding planned before I even get a diamond on my finger!  With the engagement of my cousin/sister(sister as in we are like sisters, not in the sister/cousin incest way) and her honoring me with the title of maid of honor, it has gotten me obsessed with weddings and everything that goes along with it.

Dana(cousin) and I have very different wedding tastes but we appreciate each others tastes and at least understand the beauty in each wedding styles.  Which mine I discovered is southern belle vintage (yes, i just made up a new wedding style).

When my boyfriend and I first started talking about our future and confirmed with each other there is no one else in the world each of us want to be with, the ideas started flowing!  I wanted a 1920's Hollywood glamor look applied to an outdoor wedding under a big white tent with chandeliers hanging over us.  This was the plan until I went to stay with my mom in Charlottesville,VA.  I had been to visit my parents many times so the atmosphere was nothing new to me.  It was the afternoon my mother decided that we should go winery hoping that my love of country weddings took hold of me!  She took me to Veritas Vineyard & Winery, in Afton, about 20 minutes from her house (now she lives directly behind the winery and her backyard hits their land!). And that was that; I saw their ball room and said I cannot get married anywhere else but here.  In my eyes it was the perfect setting not only inside but outside as well.  I've taken the future hubbie to Veritas every time we visit my parents in Virginia, and he agrees that it is the place.  Because of Veritas, it kicked my 1920's theme straight out the window and opened my eyes to country chic!
 Mason jars, re-used barn wood, a photo booth, lace table cloths, vintage postcards, a birdcage veil and a dyer need to have a Monique Lhuillier gown is now my dream and there is no talking me out of it!



I hope that some of you reading this are closer to actually walking down the aisle then I am because you can get some really great ideas from oncewed.comTake a peak, the ideas are endless!  Until my day, I will live vicariously through all the brides that share my vision.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

25 going on 5


Not only do I think I, myself tend to have a very childlike style when dressing, but many people have referred to my look as a little toddler-ish.  I can't help it!  I love whimsical childlike touches here and there.  Most of my fashion muses come from children book characters, such as, Eloise, Alice, Madeline and Little Red Riding Hood.  Hence my love of Marc by Marc Jacobs who always has a whimsical childish side to his sister brand.  He is not the only designer that includes memories of innocence but he is the designer that I notice it in every single collection no matter the season.



As I browsed through the old library of MBMJ collections I noticed the key to what made each look represent that innocent period in a little girls life that I am so keen to hold onto today. There are 4 key elements that I tend to include in every outfit I dress myself in.  #1, Bows; this can be a hair accessory or a print on your top but when a bow is involved a little girl is the influence.  #2, Rompers; yes, these are currently a popular trend amongst the 20 something crowd but a romper is a reminder of that time when we were crawling around on the ground.  #3, Vintage Slips, i think the silhouette has more to do with this childish look then an actual slip.  But when you pair an over sized sheer slip with details of lace there is something very doll like about it.  #4, Tights/Socks, hosiery always adds a touch of innocence, the image of cuffed white socks with lace trim and mary-janes pop into most people's heads when thinking about socks with shoes.

1. Urban Outfitters-$34  2. Shopbop.com-$160  3. Shopbop.com-$38  4. Shopbop.com-$48  5. Urban Outfitters-$20  6. Shopbop.com$-55  7. Shopbop.com-$170

1. Shopbop.com-$187  2. Urban Outfitters-$58  3. Shopbop.com-$415  4. Shopbop.com-$198  5. Urban Outfitters-$58  6. Shopbop.com-$218  7. Urban Outfitters-$48  8. Shopbop.com-$188

1. Urban Outfitters-$68  2. Urban Outfitters-$58  3. Urban Outfitters-$68  4. Urban Outfitters-$58  5. Urban Outfitters-$68  6. Urban Outfitters-$68  7. Urban Outfitters-$68


I usually have 1 of these 4 elements in every outfit I put on.  I like to look to youth for inspiration, I think it keeps people young when they stay involved with the younger generation.  There are of course lines that should not be crossed when an adult is adapting younger trends into their wardrobe.  So try to keep it simple and add only 1 element at a time or you will start looking like you walked right out of the pages of a story book.

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Nerd is the New Cool!

If you slightly pay attention to pop culture and teen television dramas, it is no surprise to you that nerds are becoming increasingly popular.  To others who are "in the dark/have no interest" this popular trend in culture and fashion is very unbelievable to them.  It doesn't take a scientist to realize I tend to stand out in my Italian American sports driven family.  My cousins continuously joke about my "interesting" fashion choices and ridiculous opinions.  My eldest cousin who is more like my big brother is no exception to any of the jokes being thrown around.  He has called me a nerd on multiple occasions because I discuss socialization movement, how awesome the internet is, correct his slang and grammar and make jokes back to him about wearing "Affliction" t-shirts.  Recently I responded to his "nerd" comments with the quick and factual statement: Nerd is the new cool!  His response back was somewhere along the lines of, "in what world are you living?"  I began to explain to him the fact behind my logic which he quickly defended with his definition of cool.

Now, don't think I feel there is only 1 definition of cool because I know there is not. To each his own.  In our society we are made up of many different types of people and depending on your interests and social settings, the definition of cool to you may be different then mine.  But I acknowledge the fact that there are many different versions and one version which is currently very popular throughout the country in young people is nerd.  With "indie rock" and "indie movies" and Michael Cera; the young people in the U.S. have the mind set that the less main stream something tends to be, the cooler it becomes.  Being original and individual with your likes and dislikes makes you cooler then the followers.  We (I include myself in the young generation which includes 20 somethings and younger) are the ironic generation because the cooler you aren't means the cooler you are.  Fashion , music and television/movies all have quote on quote nerd representation.

High end fashion is expensive,mainstream and by ironic definition; too cool.  There are a few exceptions though, the most commonly known is Marc Jacobs!  Marc represents the young nerds that don't want to look like every other kid in their high school.  What is ironic is that so many high school and college students feel this way that in turn they all shop at Urban Outfitters, thrift stores and SoHo boutiques.  Kate Moss, Chole Sevigny, Agyness Deyn, Zoey Deschanel and Nicole Richie have all lead the design world into a nerd chic direction.  Its cool to live in "Hipster Brooklyn", wear flannel, oxfords, suspenders and fedoras!
Nichole Richie(age-28): "nerd" influence--> fedora,cardigan,skinny jeans

Chole Sevigny(age-35): "nerd" influence--> vintage floral print,high socks, canvas tote,glasses

Agyness Deyn(age-27): "nerd" influence-->washed sweatshirt,dirty converse,skinny jeans

Kate Moss(age-36): "nerd" influence-->mid-calf vintage boot,sheer loose tee,flannel,skinny jean

 Zoey Deschanel(age-30): "nerd" influence-->vintage apron dress,cowboy hat,water gun

Music has many different divisions and when you speak to an ironic young kid you might ask, "What kind of music to you like?"  Your response will be something like this, "Oh well I kinda like electronical/punk/hardcore/new wave punk/ska/folk/indie/techno dance."  My generation has created these sub categories within categories of music to seem...more cool is the only explanation I can think of.  One example of a non-popular but popular band is MGMT, which consists of 2 hipster college friends that decided to start a band because they liked music and wanted to share their like of daft punk/ed banger label type djing/interesting sounds.  They began underground in major cities and before you know it, they are mainstream and 14 year old girls are standing in line to buy tickets to their shows and they were being nominated for a grammy.  It is said that MGMT is actually annoyed with their current success because they don't want to be mainstream hence my point of wanting to be an outcast and be uncool.  Now music and the people representing music always make an statement with fashion.  Rockers have influenced the way people dress from the very beginning.  Look at The Beatles, Elvis, The Clash, The Rolling Stones, and Bon Jovi.  All these musicians influenced the way people wore clothing.  So now with the nerds avenging like The Strokes, The Libertines, MGMT, Weezer, Yeah Yeah Yeahs and Vampire Weekend; teens are taking fashion advice from them and in turn becoming nerds themselves.
MGMT: 2002-present

The Strokes: 1998-present

 The Libertines: 1997-2004/2010-present

Weezer: 1992-1997/2002-present

Yeah Yeah Yeahs: 2000-present

Vampire Weekend: 2009-present

 Film and television support the nerd phenomena because the majority of producers, directors and writers are and have been nerds for years.  They finally get to give their social standing all the glory and their nerd leader is the one who gets the girl/guy in the end; not the popular football player or cheerleader.  Movies such as Superbad, Knocked Up, Juno, Remember Me and Adventureland star their nerd king/queen as the main character that is so cool and everyone wants to be just like them.  The O.C., Glee, Gossip Girl,  and My Life as Liz are all T.V. shows that have a nerd paired up with the ideal "in crowd". Seth Cohen (Adam Brody) from The O.C., Dan Humphrey (Penn Badgley) from Gossip Girl, Tyler Hawkins (Rob Pattinson) from Remember Me, and Em Lewin (Kristen Stewart) from Adventureland all are typical social outcast characters.  Their wardrobe reflect this outsider image but because the media that is delivering these outsiders happens to be accepted in the ironic generation it now becomes cool and hip.  Not only do these actors and actresses adhere to this look onscreen but they have adopted it into their every day wardrobe.  By doing this they encourage the young generation that its cool to be a nerd and stand away from the stereotype of what we thought was cool.

T.V. Casts(from top left): The O.C., My Life as Liz, Gossip Girl, Glee

NERD MOVIES

 Leading the Nerds(from left): Adam Brody(age-30),Zac Efron(age-22),Penn Badgley(age-23),Rob Pattinson(age-23) and Kristen Stewart(age-20), Michael Cera(age-21) and Ellen Page(age-23)

Culture and social circumstances are ultimately the deciding factors of trend evolution.  One example of this is the skinny jean.  You are able to walk into any mainstream store and purchase a pair of skinny jeans with no digging necessary.  Did you know though that males are the start of this trend popping back up in the late 90's?  Boys were wearing tight womens jeans as somewhat of a rebellious and no fuss attire.  The boys were BMXers or punk rockers or skaters who had more mobility in a slimming jean.  They were the cool non-jocks of their high school but they were cute, slightly jerks and girls flocked to them.  Designers are always looking to the younger generation for street wear inspiration and they took it upon themselves to reintroduce the trend.  So before you go and make fun of someone by calling them a nerd, you might want to rethink your insult.  Nerds are the new cool and I'm proud to say I am a nerd!  The nerds are coming for you jocks, so watch your back!